Your prospective Dominant is applying for a job. As far as you should be concerned, that job ought to be treated as the most important job in the world. Choosing the right person can mean a lifetime fulfilled and happy. Choosing the wrong Dom can result in a relationship train wreck, ruined lives, and perhaps even serious injury or death.
One way to avoid the potential pitfalls and dangers of ending up in a phony, frustrating, or dangerous BDSM relationship is to learn effective interviewing skills and to ask the right questions while getting to know your prospective Dominant. Make no mistake about it, this process should be treated like a series of interviews for a critical job where only the most qualified individuals need apply. The applicant who gets this job will be placed in a position to potentially make life-or-death decisions with your life hanging in the balance.
“62Q: Sixty-two Questions for Your Dominant” gives you the tools you will need to learn what you must, make good decisions based on facts rather than feelings, and to protect yourself and your loved ones from fakes, phonies, jerks, and predators.
Michael Makai has 37 years experience in the BDSM lifestyle and is the best-selling author of Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook, The Warrior Princess Submissive, and The BDSM Coloring Book: An Activity Book for Kinksters with Crayons.