New updated edition 2020. Dr. Lyn Kelley explains what a relationship commitment-phobic (CP) is and how one can be cured, or at least become committable. If there is any way to do it, this is the way! Lyn has over 20 years experience counseling and coaching couples, researching this topic, as well as her own experience and observing those of her friends. Lyn uses bold, honest, straight talk and tells it like it is.
Chapter One: What is Commitment Phobia?
Normal vs Irrational Fear
How Severe is His Case?
Lead With Your Head
How to Use Your “Chi”
Ambivalence and Inconsistency
Chapter Two: How to Spot a Commitment Phobic Right Away
Find Out What He Values
Don’t Take It Personally
Be the Selector
34 Red Flags
Chapter Three: Can Commitment Phobics be Cured?
How Good Jane Handles a CP
Men Are Like Fish
Chapter Four: How to Secure a Commitment From a Commitment Phobic
The 5 Keys to Securing a Commitment From a CP
Learn His Game
Don’t Give Away Your Jewels for Free
Stop Paying Men to Have Sex With You
Don’t Be a Love-Sick Crack Addict
Don’t Be the Dead Deer on the Doorstep
Chapter Five: How Your Five Guiding Forces Will Always Serve You Well
Always Lead With Your Head
How Your “Gut Instincts” Serve You
How Your “Chi” Serves You
How Your “Heart” Serves You
How Your “Chemistry” Serves You
How to Move On If He Can’t Commit
The 10 Commandments with CP’s