THE NEW YORK TIMES NUMBER ONE BESTSELLER
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SHORTLISTED FOR THE WELLCOME BOOK PRIZE 2017
'Finishing this book and then forgetting about it is simply not an option...Unmissable' New York Times
At the age of thirty-six, on the verge of completing a decade’s training as a neurosurgeon, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. One day he was a doctor treating the dying, the next he was a patient struggling to live.
When Breath Becomes Air chronicles Kalanithi’s transformation from a medical student asking what makes a virtuous and meaningful life into a neurosurgeon working in the core of human identity – the brain – and finally into a patient and a new father.
What makes life worth living in the face of death? What do you do when when life is catastrophically interrupted? What does it mean to have a child as your own life fades away?
Paul Kalanithi died while working on this profoundly moving book, yet his words live on as a guide to us all. When Breath Becomes Air is a life-affirming reflection on facing our mortality and on the relationship between doctor and patient, from a gifted writer who became both.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
Just as he was poised to reap the benefits of his punishing training as a neurosurgeon, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with terminal cancer. His story is a punch to the gut: a powerful reminder that life is something that happens moment to moment and that “the future” isn’t something we can plan out. Beautifully written, thought-provoking, sob-inducing, When Breath Becomes Air is also a fascinating exploration of the relationship between doctor and patient and the heavy moral responsibilities of the medical professions. By the time we got to Lucy Kalanithi’s epilogue—a love letter to her dead husband and infant daughter—our heart was bursting with sadness but also gratitude.
Author and physician Kalanithi had nearly completed his residency in neurosurgery at Stanford when he was diagnosed with Stage lV lung cancer at the age of 36. Despite the stubborn progression of his disease, Kalanithi was able to write, work, and delve into a number of profound issues before the end of his life, documented here (his wife provides the epilogue). As a youth in Arizona, Kalanithi was unsure whether he wanted to pursue medicine, as his father did, or if literature and writing were his calling. This inspiring memoir makes it clear that he excelled at both. Kalanithi shares his career struggles, bringing readers into his studies at Yale (including cadaver dissection), the relentless demands of neurosurgery, and the life-and-death decisions and medical puzzles that must be solved. After he begins cancer treatment, Kalanithi strives to define his dual role as physician and patient, and he weighs in on such topics as what makes life meaningful and how one determines what is most important when little time is left. He also shares the challenges of colleagues: an oncologist who walks a tightrope between hope and honest reality; a fellow doctor who commits suicide after losing a patient; Kalanithi's wife, also a doctor, bearing witness to her husband's decline even as she gives birth to their child. This deeply moving memoir reveals how much can be achieved through service and gratitude when a life is courageously and resiliently lived.
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Worth every tear
How lucky we are to be able to read this story. To share this journey of living and dying.
When Breath Becomes Air
Paul was an extremely clever and insightful man. What drew me to his book was the fact my own father died at age 36 of a heart attack no-one saw coming. He had two attacks in the one day and was gone within hours that same day. It has stayed with my sister and I all our lives. She was six at the time and I was nine. We had no family in Australia only our mother as they were Dutch migrants.
The love and support of family, and Paul’s constant thoughts of your and Cady’s future Lucy showed me the kind of man he was.
Not only brilliant, hard working and always seeing his own faults, writing about them and changing his thinking through time. I found his story incredibly interesting, and read it very quickly.
No one could have written a better narrative than someone having lived it all. Amazing just amazing.
I too was no longer religious, but Paul’s thoughts later on in life had a profound effect on me. How true was the way he interpreted Science, as well as Religion, concerning true and false interpretations by both parties - it really had me thinking.
I was so glad he had you for support Lucy, and that you both had beautiful, darling Cady. What a difference she made to his time left, and to your love and memories as a family. He will also live on through Cady.
So many of us don’t appreciate the love of an extended family from both sides, and bicker about the smallest things.
Both Paul and your insight made one stop and think about trivialities and look at the big and fortunate picture.
Thank you to all who helped finish the book and have it published. My life is richer as a result.
Such raw emotion, he has compelled us to come face to face with our own mortality.
Whilst travelling through Laos I chose this book to read. I have recently lost my father to cancer, and I am a doctor. Definitely needed a pack of tissues.
There were so many pieces of his life that resonated deeply with me.
It truly felt that we were walking with him through that journey with his family. Beautifully written.