At the age of three, it was Tre that gave me the title to this book. I pen this writing in honor and celebrating the countless of women across the county who have similar experiences. To the many Grandparents who now are raising grandchildren. We live in a society were this has become the norm. No life is a mistake God has the final say of who enters this world. I a sure you that your love, sacrifices, wisdom and incalculable contributions in the lives of our children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, God children, and students...etc truly makes a difference. You are giving hope and purpose while creating a legacy.