The Way of Boys
Promoting the Social and Emotional Development of Young Boys
-
-
3.7 • 7 Ratings
-
-
- $7.99
-
- $7.99
Publisher Description
The Way of Boys by renowned psychologist Dr. Anthony Rao is an important wake-up call to the dangers of over-medicating our male children and our current tendency to treat their active boyhood as an illness. Dr. Rao raises a much-needed alarm in this essential volume that belongs in every parent’s collection alongside Raising Cain by Michael Thompson. In these times when many parents, concerned about ADHD, Asperger’s Syndrome, and bipolar disorder, may be dangerously misinterpreting their young sons’ healthy, normal development process, The Way of Boys is must reading.
Why are so many boys being diagnosed with behavioral problems—and what can parents do to encourage healthy development without resorting to medication?
Healthy Boyhood Development: Learn why your son’s energy, impulsivity, and even aggression are often normal parts of his development, not signs of an illness.Parenting Strategies Without Medication: Discover practical, research-proven behavioral therapies to manage tantrums, improve focus, and build social skills without prescriptions.Understanding Common Diagnoses: Get a clear-eyed look at ADHD, Asperger’s Syndrome, and bipolar disorder, and understand why these labels are so often misapplied to young boys.Building Social and Emotional Skills: From making friends to managing frustration, get concrete advice from Dr. Rao to help your son navigate the social challenges of growing up.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Rao, a psychologist who has worked with young boys for two decades at Harvard Medical School as well as in private practice, claims that very young boys are being misdiagnosed with disorders such as ADHD and Asperger's and are often unnecessarily treated with medications that, he believes, should be a last resort (some boys, he notes, have even been thrown out of preschool for unruly behavior). With writer Seaton, Rao argues that many young boys who grab, kick, fidget, act out in school or refuse to make eye contact are simply being true to their brain development and hardwiring; in the vast majority of cases, Rao claims, these behaviors are healthy and normal, and shouldn't require medical intervention. The authors explain that boys do best with tactile, hands-on learning and more physical movement than most schools provide. Rather than rush to label and diagnose, Rao recommends a wait-and-see approach, noting that most behavior problems are temporary developmental glitches (with the exception of autism, which benefits from early intervention). Rao offers strategies parents can employ to help their youngsters learn to communicate, socialize and deal with anger and other issues. Though a bit heavy on the case studies, Rao's text is a valuable resource for readers determining whether to seek a medical diagnosis and a prescription or opt for a behavioral plan and a strong dose of patience.
