Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting (Unabridged‪)‬

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Publisher Description

The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.

When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.

Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.

Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.

Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are- by design-toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.

With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman-a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal-sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.

While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children-including her own-are capable of feats she'd never imagined.

Abby Craden
hr min
February 7
Random House Audio

Customer Reviews

Nhunts ,

Best parenting book out there

This is an easy read that I'll be reviewing again and again while I parent. Learning what the French do differently is inspiring, and promises to grow happier, more established children who can live in harmony with their parents rather than parents loosing themselves to their kids. Highly recommend

Bbttoronto ,

Good book, bad reader

The reading is annoying and offensive. Any time the reader comes to a French word or expression, or when she speaks for someone who is French, she does a HORRIBLE French accent. It gets old pretty quick.

MPaltrow ,

Decent book but terrible French accent!

Decent audiobook until the annoying fake French accent kicks in. I ended up fast forwarding through the entire second part just because I could no longer stand the cartoonish French accent.

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