Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
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4.2 • 125 Ratings
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- $15.99
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- $15.99
Publisher Description
“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.”
—Philadelphia Inquirer
“Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men.”
—Aretha Franklin
The #1 New York Times bestseller from the new guru of relationship advice, Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is an invaluable self-help book that can empower women everywhere to take control of their relationships. The host of a top-rated radio show listened to by millions daily—and of cable TV’s The Steve Harvey Project—Harvey knows what men really think about love, intimacy, and commitment. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, the author, media personality, and stand-up comedian gets serious, sharing his wealth of knowledge, insight, and no-nonsense dating advice for women for every good woman who wants to find a good man or make her current love last.
Why do men do what they do—and what does it take to win their hearts for a lifetime?
The Mindset of a Man: Learn what really drives men—who they are, what they do, and how much they make—and why it is the key to understanding everything else.Sports Fish vs. Keepers: Discover how men distinguish between women they play with and women they plan a future with, and how to signal you are keeper material from day one.The Ninety-Day Rule: Understand why withholding the “cookie” and making him prove he is worthy is the ultimate way to get the respect you deserve.Five Questions to Ask: Arm yourself with the five questions every woman should ask a man to find out his real intentions before she gets in too deep.How to Get the Ring: Move from his woman to his wife by setting your own timeline and requiring the commitment you have earned.
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AS A POPULAR COMEDIAN, RADIO HOST AND RED-BLOODED MALE, HARVEY DOESN'T HAVE THE BONA FIDES TYPICAL TO MOST WOMEN'S RELATIONSHIP SELF-HELP, BUT HE STILL MANAGES A THOROUGH, WITTY GUIDE TO THE MODERN MAN. HARVEY UNDERTAKES THE TASK BECAUSE "WOMEN ARE CLUELESS ABOUT MEN," BECAUSE "MEN GET AWAY WITH A WHOLE LOT OF STUFF" AND BECAUSE HE HAS "SOME VALUABLE INFORMATION TO CHANGE ALL OF THAT." HARVEY MAKES A GAME EFFORT, TAKING A BOLD BUT FAMILIAR MEN-ARE-DOGS APPROACH: IF YOU'RE "CUTTING BACK" ON SEX, "HE WILL HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN LINED UP AND WAITING TO GIVE HIM WHAT HE NEEDS AND WANTS-THE COOKIE." SEVERAL CHAPTERS LATER, HOWEVER, HE INTRODUCES THE "NINETY-DAY RULE," ASSERTING THAT, ACTUALLY, HE WON'T ALWAYS HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN LINED UP-AND THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE SURE IS A THREE MONTH VETTING PERIOD. HARVEY ALSO TACKLES MAMA'S BOYS, "INDEPENDENT-AND LONELY-WOMEN," AND THE MATTER OF CHILDREN IN THE DATING WORLD ("IF HE'S MEETING THE KIDS AFTER YOU DECIDE HE'S THE ONE, IT'S TOO LATE"). FEMINISTS AND THE EASILY OFFENDED PROBABLY WON'T TAKE TO HARVEY'S BLANKET STATEMENTS AND BLUNT ADVICE, BUT HARVEY'S FANS AND THOSE IN NEED OF TOUGH (BUT TICKLISH) LOVE ADVICE SHOULD CHECK IT OUT (ESPECIALLY THE HYSTERICAL LAST-CHAPTER Q&A).
Customer Reviews
Act like a lady, Think like a Man
Great read, funny at times too! Thank you for sharing Steve ;)
On target
Men really are this simple. This book explained all of my girlfriends' relationships (and mine). Thanks Steve
Recommended book!
Very straight-forward to the point book, that any intelligent woman should take it with a grain of salt and really start assessing their own behavior.