How does making friends, the view of sex, traditional and modern marriages, becoming a resident, and knowing that your children can be kidnapped...legally, connect with that funny little thing called love? Japan is different. You must first appreciate the workings of this foreign and complex society before having a chance at finding love. The Japanese word for love is ai which is pronounced similarly to I in English. As the books title suggests, we sometimes dont know if we are in love. For Japan lovers, Ai, Love You? is the ultimate insiders guide to understanding relationships through the Japanese perspective.