Blue Sky Kingdom
A Family Journey to the Heart of the Himalaya
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4.7 • 9 Ratings
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- $16.99
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- $16.99
Publisher Description
One morning at breakfast, while gawking at his phone and feeling increasingly disconnected from family and everything else of importance in his world, it strikes writer Bruce Kirkby: this isn’t how he wants to live.
Within days, plans begin to take shape. Bruce, his wife Christine, and their two children—seven-year-old Bodi and three-year-old Taj—will cross the Pacific by container ship, then travel onward through South Korea, China, India and Nepal aboard bus, riverboat and train, eventually traversing the Himalaya by foot. Their destination: a thousand-year-old Buddhist monastery in the remote Zanskar valley, one of the last places where Tibetan Buddhism is still practised freely in its original setting.
Taken into the mud-brick home of a senior lama, Tsering Wangyal, the family spends the summer absorbed by monastery life. In this refuge, where ancient traditions intersect with the modern world, Bruce discovers ways to slow down, to observe and listen, and ultimately, to better understand his son on the autism spectrum—to surrender all expectations and connect with Bodi exactly as he is.
Recounted with wit and humility, Blue Sky Kingdom is an engaging travel memoir as well as a thoughtful exploration of modern distraction, the loss of ancient wisdom, and the challenges and rewards of intercultural friendships.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
In this uplifting travelogue, Kirkby, a Canadian travel journalist and photographer, recounts how he and his family fled the pressures of society to "slow down" in a Himalayan Buddhist temple. Addicted to iPhones and exhausted from their oldest son, seven-year-old Bodi's, autism spectrum diagnosis and treatment, Kirkby and his wife, Christine, decided to depart on their "fantasy" with their two children: a journey by canoe, container ship, train, and trekking, to the thousand-year-old Karsha Gompa in Zanskar, India (a three-month trip). Along the way, Kirkby and Christine teach English to novice monks and are adopted by Lama Wangyal, who gives them Tibetan names, a practical matter for pronunciation but also, Kirkby notes, an "honour." Interspersed are facts about the Dalai Lama, Buddhist rituals, India's history, and Chinese "territorial claims over Tibet," with examples of prejudice against Tibetans in India (Wangyal is unable to obtain a visa to travel to Canada, despite Kirkby's interventions). Kirkby has an eye for detail, imbuing even the most mundane tasks with meaning. Emotional reflections on the journey, Bodi's "leaps in development," and Kirkby's "newfound ability to... actually meet Bodi where he is," are juxtaposed with keen observations on the modern world encroaching on Zanskar. It's poignant and gently provocative, much like a prayer flag blowing in the wind.
Customer Reviews
Multi-dimensional Journey
As a parent of a son on the autism spectrum, this family “adventure” holds deeper significance. Thank you for sharing this multidimensional journey.
Sky Blue Kingdom
Exciting! A great adventure well told! Captivating! Honest. A great story of the interaction of Bruce Kirkby and his family in a culture different than their own where they were warmly embraced.