Perfect Marriage Not a Mirage

Perfect Marriage Not A Mirage

by Poonam A. Bamba


Description


Author's encounters with husbands and wives in different stages of agony and despair, while holding matrimonial court, led her to reflect deeply on the dynamics of the relationship called "marriage". Case after case revealed that a lot goes into preparation for rituals and extravaganza associated with marriage. But, hardly a thought is spared about this delicate relationship. Girls and boys are very demanding of their companion but none is ready to pitch in. Both want their "own way" - their "own space" but are reluctant to invest in togetherness.


The real life stories revealed that you cannot have a "perfect twosome", when each individual brings his/her own imperfections. Conflicts would always be there but they can be managed. A beginning made with the preamble that marriage has to work, can make this bond beautiful. To build a pleasant relationship, a couple needs to give time to each other to adjust to the new company and to respect each other's way of life. Attempt to change the other, is surely avoidable.


Through this book, the author shares real life stories of estranged spouses; What went wrong in their relationship and where? Could the marital relationship in certain situations, have been saved?


"Perfect Marriage - Not a Mirage" also addresses endless doubts which go on in the minds of spouses at the crossroads of their relationship. But at the same time. it also demonstrates that is no uniform code which can make a marriage work. There cannot be a 'perfect recipe' or a 'rule book' which can guide couples to a successful marriage.


About The Author


Poonam A. Bamba was born and brought up in Delhi. Graduated with honours in Botany from Hans Raj College, Delhi and took a degree and post graduation in Law from Delhi University. She had a checkered career. Ms. Bamba practised as a lawyer in Delhi Courts, worked with the Legal Dept. of two nationalized banks and thereafter with Securities Market Regulator - Securities and Exchange Board of India (SEBI) at Mumbai. She was Jt. Legal Advisor in SEBI before she joined Delhi Higher judicial Service in 2002.


She is presently living in Delhi.