Somebody's Daughter
A Memoir
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Description de l’éditeur
INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
NBCC John Leonard Prize Finalist
Indie Bestseller
“This is a book people will be talking about forever.” —Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Untamed
“Ford’s wrenchingly brilliant memoir is truly a classic in the making. The writing is so richly observed and so suffused with love and yearning that I kept forgetting to breathe while reading it.” —John Green, #1 New York Times bestselling author
One of the most prominent voices of her generation debuts with an extraordinarily powerful memoir: the story of a childhood defined by the looming absence of her incarcerated father.
Through poverty, adolescence, and a fraught relationship with her mother, Ashley C. Ford wishes she could turn to her father for hope and encouragement. There are just a few problems: he’s in prison, and she doesn’t know what he did to end up there. She doesn’t know how to deal with the incessant worries that keep her up at night, or how to handle the changes in her body that draw unwanted attention from men. In her search for unconditional love, Ashley begins dating a boy her mother hates. When the relationship turns sour, he assaults her. Still reeling from the rape, which she keeps secret from her family, Ashley desperately searches for meaning in the chaos. Then, her grandmother reveals the truth about her father’s incarceration . . . and Ashley’s entire world is turned upside down.
Somebody’s Daughter steps into the world of growing up a poor Black girl in Indiana with a family fragmented by incarceration, exploring how isolating and complex such a childhood can be. As Ashley battles her body and her environment, she embarks on a powerful journey to find the threads between who she is and what she was born into, and the complicated familial love that often binds them.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Journalist Ford debuts with a blistering yet tender account of growing up with an incarcerated father. She retraces her childhood in 1990s Fort Wayne, Ind., where she lived in a family anchored by her weary mother, whose anger bubbled over frequently, and a judgmental but loving grandmother. Felt throughout is the shadowy presence of her father, who was serving a 24-year sentence for rape. The moving narrative unfolds with tales of childhood misadventures with her younger brother, frequent library visits, and days spent anywhere but home: "I told myself being away was the only way we were going to make it out." Ford writes vividly of having to weather her mother's rage (which "drained the light from her eyes") and rotating cast of boyfriends, while navigating her own sense of shame and abandonment as a teenager fighting to be "loved ferociously and completely" in a series of painful relationships. Though she rarely visited her father in prison, he wrote to her often, and "his letters were clues to where I'd come from." When they finally reconnected before his release, Ford describes their tearful reunion and reconciliation with devastating clarity. "Somewhere, in the center of it all, was my father's favorite girl." This remarkable, heart-wrenching story of loss, hardship, and self-acceptance astounds.
Avis des utilisateurs
Great complex relationships book
This book was really different as a memoir. Ashley explored the complexities that exist between different people, either with your father, mother, grandparents or even your siblings. She really goes deep. Even with having a father who’s been incarcerated for most of her life she still finds love within herself to make him part of her life. It is a deep souled book where you learn the depth of relationships that surrounds you. I liked this book.