Life was good! Until I got Married for the First Time

Before you enter into a relationship be aware of the red flags of abuse.
There are warning signs that can be over looked do to being in love and thinking everything is fine.
if you're not prepare or have knowledge of these red flags you will find out real soon, that not everyone is a nice person. Abusers get you to fall for them and once they have you where they want you, then the unthinkable happens. They target trusting people.
no matter how sweet they are in the beginning, when things begin to change it's time to get out before it escalates.
These words are from my own personal experiences, and if I can help just one person, then all of what I've been through will have some meaning.