Wake-Up Calls

I have tried to recall the tragic events happen in Ten years span from 1985 to 1995, in my life
Some of the events: I call it Wake-Up Calls because those calls were an indications, a gesture, a warning to change the path I was following with the blinkers on my eyes. Call after call to awake me and put me on the right path. First call was a near miss accident where I would have been.. The second call, my elder brother died in a car accident and four weeks later my mother passed away. The third call, the three Ds, friends Devdutt, Damian and Dominic had an accident.
Three warnings are norm but I had the fourth and final warning.. when I had to Wake-Up.