Swipe to Play: 99 First Date Questions to Break the Ice, Court with Confidence and Reveal Potential Chemistry (Unabridged‪)‬

Let’s just face it: First dates are awkward.

Sorry to break it to you, but romantic meet-cutes are a thing of the past; swipes are in, and hope is out! Just kidding. Sort of.

But do we continue to put ourselves out there? Yes. And will we be willing to move past the possibility of a disastrous encounter with a stranger? Of course.

Call it eternal hope, romanticism, or straight-up foolishness, our human need for connection is strong and the possibility of meeting a potential soulmate will make us do senseless things.

Meeting someone for the first time after merely seeing photos or exchanging a few words is bound to be daunting. For one thing, we inevitably construct a whole persona based on the person’s photos, choice of vocabulary, and communication type.

Through attempting to find a suitable mate, we assess every swipee’s potential and unconsciously create an entire pre and post-date narrative.

That’s where Swipe to Play comes in.

Asking questions is one of the best ways to get to know someone.

Choosing the right questions is tricky, so I’ve got you covered with:


Smooth openings: Ice breakers
Psyche Digs: Personality types, love languages and intellectual compatibility
Cross Examination: Fill in the blank, Lightning round, Quick fire interest quiz
Unloading baggage: Diving into dating history, family and upbringing
Sunday Roast: Revealing lovable quirks
Flirt & Dirt: Naughty and offbeat questions
Just Don’t: Things you should never ask on a first date
Your foolproof getaway plan: With a focus on open-ended questions for a more genuine dive into a stranger’s soul, these conversation openers will relieve the pressure of first meets and create a playful premise for your first date.


Find your human with these 99 witty questions that will have you laughing, blushing, and avoiding many a first-date faux pas.