The influencer

Instead of focusing on your own selfish desires, which will draw criticism the more, they conflict with other interests, and so on until everything is in reverse, the goal is to take control of the issue and work toward a solution. To develop this life skill, one must first face a challenge. Being an attentive listener might help you understand the other person's emotional driving forces. The conversation will move forward after you have an understanding of the emotional factors influencing their perspective.