Valentines Treats and Tips

One of the most important things for either a man or woman to know or at least make the effort to learn, is what makes their significant other tick. You must be alert and attentive to the wants and the needs and the desires of the other, put them first in your life. In order to make Valentine’s Day a spectacular it’s essential that you truly know the heart and desires of your mate.
The investment of time and effort and thought during the year leading up to Valentine’s Day are critically important. The expenditure of that time and effort to gain that knowledge is the investment that shows the love for one another is not just a one day a year thing. Real love is earned every day of the year and not just on special occasions. It is not enough to buy a card and some flowers the day before or the day of Valentine’s Day. It truly is not the present or the card or the flowers that express the messages you want to communicate to the loved one you chose above all others.
The present is the time and the effort as well as the card and the flowers together that is the ultimate expression of the love you feel and the love you share. You can only fail to show your love and cause the “I am taking you for granted” feeling” if you don’t make the properly directed effort to be actually interested in your loved one every day. Then you can show on one day, Valentine’s Day, what effort you have made all year long to that one person you love. The evidence of your efforts is the actual gift on Valentine’s Day. The time it took you to think ahead, find out what was important to the one you love and to arrange the shopping spree, the purchase of the jewellery, the tickets to the game or the show or to prepare the special meal is actually the gift of love. Properly directed, thoughtful time and effort throughout the year are the evidence of your love. The card and the flowers and the unexpected actions are intended to reveal the evidence of your love. You must give of yourself in order to give the love you want to share with your loved one. The day to day effort you expend to know and to understand the one you love is what is important. Finding out their inner secrets and wants and needs is the effort required to make a Valentine’s Day special. If both the man and the woman make that daily effort to know one another better every day, then there will be love.