How to be LOVED

2021 edition.
How have your relationship priorities changed since the global pandemic?

Perhaps now is the time for a NEW approach to dating. Newly updated.

“The self-help path to true love" Mail on Sunday 


"This new book will teach you a whole new attitude - you'll be fighting the men off!" More! Magazine 


"How to be LOVED. Whether you're single, married, coming out of a relationship, or just want to get on with people better, this will help...an inspiring new book" Bella Magazine 


If you are single, why would anyone choose to stop their own search once they’ve met you? Especially in today’s online world where almost everyone is now only a click away from being the “ex” in “n-ex-t”. 


Married, single or in a relationship, learn how to improve your Emotional Fitness by strengthening your Emotional Core: the four qualities that provide you with the emotional stability, depth and strength to make you as irresistible to a partner as they are to you. 


Which of these qualities are the most appealing to you: someone who is kind, considerate, loving, committed, honest, reliable, compassionate, happy, interesting, optimistic, GSOH, intelligent and physically attractive? But how many of these same qualities do you possess? 


Adopt and absorb life-changing wisdom, insights and practical ideas to improve your current relationship or prepare yourself for The One you have yet to meet. Includes a hundred plus Daily Stop & Start Reminders to help you to be The One. Starting today. 


“I’ve read a lot of relationship books over the years. This one is different. I learned LOADS, especially about my emotional fitness. Thank you.” Nita 


“I have been in a relationship for three years. He’s a lovely guy but I found myself feeling more and more irritated by him. I read this book and got a shock. I realised it was me not him. He’s The One. I now want to make sure I’m The One for him.” Emma 


“I LOVE the Daily Stop and Start Reminders. What a great idea.” Becky 


“...made me think about what I want from a long-term partner and how I can be a more considerate person to her too. All I have to do now is meet her!” Paul 


“...very impressed by the amount of research. It’s a fabulous read and well thought out and structured... it certainly takes the reader on a voyage of self-discovery... for me it is your personal stories I particularly enjoyed.” Trish