What My Bones Know
A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma
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- USD 7.99
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- USD 7.99
Descripción editorial
Every cell in my body is filled with the code of generations of trauma, of death, of birth, ofmigration, of history that I cannot understand. . . . I want to have words for what my bonesknow.
By the age of thirty, Stephanie Foo was successful on paper: she had her dream job as an award-winning radio producer at This American Life and a loving boyfriend. But behind her office door, she was having panic attacks and sobbing at her desk every morning. After years of questioning what was wrong with herself, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD - a condition that occurs when trauma happens continuously, over the course of years.
Both of Foo's parents abandoned her when she was a teenager, after years of physical and verbal abuse and neglect. She thought she'd moved on, but her new diagnosis illuminated the way her past continued to threaten her health, relationships, and career. She found limited resources to help her, so Foo set out to heal herself, and to map her experiences onto the scarce literature about C-PTSD.
In this deeply personal and thoroughly researched account, Foo interviews scientists and psychologists and tries a variety of innovative therapies. She returns to her hometown in California to investigate the effects of immigrant trauma on the community, and she uncovers family secrets in the country of her birth, Malaysia, to learn how trauma can be inherited through generations. Ultimately, she discovers that you don't move on from trauma - but you can learn to move with it.
Powerful, enlightening and hopeful, What My Bones Know is a brave narrative that reckons with the hold of the past over the present, the mind over the body - and examines one woman's ability to reclaim agency from her trauma.
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Foo, radio journalist and former producer of This American Life, recounts her astounding story of living with complex PTSD (C-PTSD), a diagnosis that describes the psychological pain experienced by those who've suffered recurring traumas. To find her "redemption arc" and reckon with her trauma, Foo felt she needed "to tease apart the careful life I have crafted for myself, the one that is threatening to unravel at any minute." She exceeds her intention by delivering a heartrending portrayal of the physical abuse she suffered as a child at the hands of her parents, immigrants from Malaysia ("If you are beaten for hundreds of mistakes, then every mistake becomes dangerous.... The world itself becomes a threat"). Foo also writes of the therapeutic work she undertook in her adulthood to heal and the agency she's gained from it. "C-PTSD is a wily shape-shifter," she writes. "Each episode is its own odyssey... requiring new bursts of courage." What takes this brilliant work from a personal story to a cultural touch point is the way Foo situates her experiences into a larger conversation about intergenerational trauma, immigration, and the mind-body connection ("I was casting abuse and bad parenting as a central theme across my community—was this perpetuating a negative, unhealthy stereotype?"). This is a work of immense beauty.
