Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots (Unabridged‪)‬

Why do some men struggle to feel love, or for that matter, feel any emotions? It is because they are emotionally undeveloped. They lack the skills and resources needed to emotionally connect on a deeper level. And this leaves them with an unfulfilled void and their loved ones feeling empty, alone and frustrated.

Many men have a low emotional IQ, and this is especially true for those who deal with addictive behaviors. A low emotional IQ prevents men from

Bonding with others
Understanding what they feel
Expressing their emotions
Dealing with others' emotions
Engaging in social settings
Knowing what to say


This book is for men who feel like they are on the outside looking in when they see others engaging in meaningful conversation. It is for those who experience little joy in life and feel like they are existing instead of living. And for those who may turn to addictive behaviors to feel something. This book explains why this happened but, more importantly, how to correct it.

This book is also for women who are frustrated with their relationships or have been betrayed. It provides critical insights to help you better understand why your mate struggles to:

Emotionally engage.
Be empathic.
Engage with others and prefers to isolate..
Be curious about family members.
Control anger and/or mood swings.
Make or keep friends.
Manage impulsive behavior.
Have interests.
To be content


Why Men Struggle to Love outlines the 14 relational blind spots that prevent men from acknowledging their emotions. These blind spots are the result of limited nurturing during critical stages in a man's childhood development. This book explains how missed opportunities to learn to attune to others; be vulnerable; provide empathy, and regulate moods results in men who struggle to love.

If you or your partner struggle to emotionally engage, this book will open your eyes regarding the root of the problem, while providing you with real solutions.