Emotionally Unstable

Attachment Styles from Childhood to Adulthood

Who knew the attachment styles that we were susceptible too in our early childhood would follow us into our adulthood? Do the attachment styles of our parents really shape the (Avoidant, Preoccupied, Fearful, Dismissive, or Secure) attachments we form in our adult interpersonal relationships today? If i am honest my intimate attachments were toxic. I pulled and pushed love away and didn't know why until I embarked upon a journey that helped me learn the truth. Identifying the patterns and breaking the cycles was no easy task. I wanted to get free but the pain inside would not let me go. My hurt drove me to having multiple casual partners that sadly resulted in more brokenness. What was I missing, or even more what was I trying to fill?

My desperation for acceptance, attention, affection, protection, and admiration made me think any boy could satisfy what hurt. Why was I driven by sex instead of love? I had to get down to the bottom, and hope to help you do the same in my timeless book piece entitled: Emotionally unstable (Growing up without my Daddy).