How to be LOVED

Personal development for single woman and men.


Develop your emotional literacy, self-awareness, self-esteem and confidence while breaking free from emotional slavery.


It achieves this by assisting you in recognising and breaking free from old habits and behaviors that may make you less appealing, while encouraging the adoption of new habits and behaviors that enhance your agreeability in social, professional, and intimate settings.


It’s for men and women of all sexual preferences, persuasions and religions who are looking for a long-term ‘serious’ relationship with another person, perhaps after years of ‘fun’ dating.


In the context of dating (which the author describes as “auditions for intimacy”), it starts with the simple question:


Why would anyone choose to stop their search for a long-term partner, once they’ve met YOU?


Especially in today’s online world where almost everyone is now only a click away from being the “ex” in “n-ex-t”.


Married, single or in a relationship, learn how to improve your Emotional Fitness by strengthening your Emotional Core: the four qualities that provide you with the emotional stability, flexibility and strength to make you as irresistible to a partner as they are to you.


Adopt and absorb life-changing wisdom, insights and practical ideas to improve your current relationship or prepare yourself for The One you have yet to meet. Includes a hundred plus Daily Stop & Start Reminders to help you to be The One. Starting today.


“I’ve read a lot of relationship books over the years. This one is different. I learned LOADS, especially about my emotional fitness. Thank you.” Nita


“I have been in a relationship for three years. He’s a lovely guy but I found myself feeling more and more irritated by him. I read this book and got a shock. I realised it was me not him. He’s The One. I now want to make sure I’m The One for him.” Emma


“I LOVE the Daily Stop and Start Reminders. What a great idea.” Becky


“...made me think about what I want from a long-term partner and how I can be a more considerate person to her too. All I have to do now is meet her!” Paul


“...very impressed by the amount of research. It’s a fabulous read and well thought out and structured... it certainly takes the reader on a voyage of self-discovery... for me it is your personal stories I particularly enjoyed.” Trish


"Whether you're single, married, coming out of a relationship, or just want to get on with people better, this will help...an inspiring new book" Bella Magazine


"This new book will teach you a whole new attitude - you'll be fighting the men off!" More! Magazine


"The self-help path to true love" Mail on Sunday YOU magazine.