Shattered Pieces

Being faithful when in a relationship is difficult already when trust is broken, and having the kind of friends my wife had, they would advise her to “Get rid of him. Once a cheater, always a cheater,” and given all that was going on, I can’t say that I blame them. It’s just a fact that about 60% of cheaters reoffend because some attractions will never go away. When your spouse discovers a reoccurring betrayal, it sends her a message that you neither regretted the offense nor seriously intended to change.

I was a man in my mid-40’s, married with two children. My wife began to suspect I was interested in someone and looked for clues of my deception. She found an online name and address for a chat room and began sending e-mails as if she were interested in a “hook-up.” Not knowing the messages were actually from my wife, Corey arranged to meet me her for coffee. When confronted at the coffee table, Corey made the perfect apology to my wife. He expressed his guilt and admitted that it was his first time engaging in activity like that and he merely wanted to test it out and see what it was all about. By testing it out, he meant meeting someone online @ Black People Meet and My Space. He gave no excuse or defense for me having wronged her, telling my wife she had every right to feel hurt. It was Hard for her to come to grips with the fact that her man, her husband had fallen in Love with a man and was cheating. “So me and your family wasn’t good enough? You had to have your cake and eat it too?” asked Wendy. Well enjoy ALL OF THAT!! I Hope you are prepared to GET THEE HELL OUT!!