Getting Marriage Right The First Time

Keeping a marriage together gives support to each other, helping one to be successful. With love and care to uphold a marriage, emotional, mental or physical support can be given to each other, which direct and help each other to be successful in life. Respect one another. Do not easily pick on each other's bad habits or weaknesses. Give each other chances for improvements. Also, pay attention to what your spouse speaks of or when they dress up. Your spouse needs you. A slight nod or a smile with some proper conversation may uplift his/her spirit. Consider each other's privacy.

Do not interfere too much with the privacy and space of your spouse. Being overly conscious and curious about what your spouse does will cause strains in the relationship. Do not always expect your spouse to treat you better. Do not be calculative, in the sense that expecting your spouse to give you more than you give to him/her. Do more for your spouse, helping and supporting each other in times of need. Speak positive to your spouse. Say nice words frequently to motivate your spouse for what he/she did- this will enlighten your spouse and make him/her happier. Focus on what happens presently or in the future yet not looking back at mistakes made. However, learn from your mistakes.