Professional Troublemaker
The Fear-Fighter Manual
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From the New York Times bestselling author of I'm Judging You, a hilarious and transformational book about how to tackle fear--that everlasting hater--and audaciously step into lives, careers, and legacies that go beyond even our wildest dreams
Luvvie Ajayi Jones is known for her trademark wit, warmth, and perpetual truth-telling. But even she's been challenged by the enemy of progress known as fear. She was once afraid to call herself a writer, and nearly skipped out on doing a TED talk that changed her life because of imposter syndrome. As she shares in Professional Troublemaker, she's not alone.
We're all afraid. We're afraid of asking for what we want because we're afraid of hearing "no." We're afraid of being different, of being too much or not enough. We're afraid of leaving behind the known for the unknown. But in order to do the things that will truly, meaningfully change our lives, we have to become professional troublemakers: people who are committed to not letting fear talk them out of the things they need to do or say to live free.
With humor and honesty, and guided by the influence of her professional troublemaking Nigerian grandmother, Funmilayo Faloyin, Luvvie walks us through what we must get right within ourselves before we can do the things that scare us; how to use our voice for a greater good; and how to put movement to the voice we've been silencing--because truth-telling is a muscle.
The point is not to be fearless, but to know we are afraid and charge forward regardless. It is to recognize that the things we must do are more significant than our fears. This book is about how to live boldly in spite of all the reasons we have to cower. Let's go!
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Rants & Randomness podcast host Jones (I'm Judging You) explores how to fight fear in order to speak up for oneself in this witty, insightful guide. According to Jones, keeping quiet about things that matter (particularly with family members or coworkers) serves no one; however, those who speak up must be prepared to "fail loudly." Broken into three sections—"Be," "Say," "Do"—Jones's strategy puts the idea of a strong sense of identity at its foundation. "It's about knowing you belong in this world just as much as anyone else," she writes. Using this concept, Jones provides simple exercises to help readers with self-expression, such as writing a self-affirming Yoruba oríkì poem, composing a personal mission statement, and listing one's values and goals. She also recommends "owning your dopeness" through celebrating accomplishments and not being afraid of being labeled arrogant. Explaining that "professional troublemaking" is about "expecting the best of everybody and making sure they're seeing their blind spots," Jones offers three questions to ask oneself before "ruffling feathers": "Is this thing something I believe? Can I stand in it and justify it? Can I say it with love or thoughtfully?" Readers needing the extra push to stand up will find Jones's advice enlightening and empowering.
