Seduction is Conversation: Engaging with Words

“Seduction is an ongoing process that does not end in the first few months but must continue throughout the relationship”.

In this essay, the topic of seduction is treated in a new way. The assumption is that a partner must be attracted to him or her even after the initial phase. In order to ensure continuity in the story, it is necessary to maintain lively communication that can guarantee positive emotional involvement. What can we do, then, to achieve long-lasting and satisfying relationships? A good place to start is with advanced dialogue skills in order to use your sensitivity to gently penetrate your partner’s mind.

This book, full of ideas and reflections, will accompany you in the development of new skills (from emotional communication to relational storytelling) to improve your life as a couple and, more generally, the way you relate to the world.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Synopsis

SEDUCTION IS CONVERSATION

Seduction is a Continuous Process

Things Don't Happen in Love. They Are Made to Happen.

Seduction in the Initial Phase (The Great Classic)

We are Eight Billion, All Different

Seduction is a Question of Values and Dignity

Sniffing the Ass to Know the Air

Deep Talk Beats Cheap Talk at Hands Off

How to Always Look Cool, Even If You Don't Feel Cool

Watch out for Red Flags

Keeping the Conversation Level High

The Damned Conversations Online

The Art of Storytelling to Convey Your Value

Somewhere You Have to Start (First Meeting)

Communication Environment Analysis

Interpreting the Communication Context

Mistrust and Incommunicability

Listening is Always Sexy

The Power of Silence

APPENDIX

Seduction: Perception, Prejudice and Mental Image

Female and Male Signals of Interest

Communication and Objectives

Igniting Emotional Memories Through Stories

INSIGHTS

5 Ways to 'Challenge' by Creating Interest

Igniting a Dialogue with the Mystery Technique

Creating 'Emotional Tension' to Better Understand Men and Women

Creating 'Emotional Tension' With Live Stories

Generating Positive Tension in a Dialogue

How to empathise with a person

Generating Authentic Interest in People

Improvising a Live Story

How to Start Telling an Anecdote

How to Start a Conversation

How to Keep the Level of a Conversation High

Flashback and Flashforward in Relational Storytelling

3 Simple Steps to Tell a Story

Non-Verbal Errors to Avoid

The Weapon of Storytelling in Interpersonal Relations

Tell Your Anecdotes Like a Film

Why Your Dialogues Go Dull

More Charisma and Confidence With 23 Daily Communication Exercises

The Author