Stunning...a wonderful listen...a handbook for life. Those words of advance praise from another celebrated author scarcely convey just how powerfully mesmerizing is the latest book by New York Times best-selling author and nationally syndicated radio talk show host Larry Elder.
Dear Father, Dear Son is a personal memoir of Elder's troubled - one might even say tortured - relationship with his father, and the astonishing outcome that develops when Elder, at long last, confronts him.
Says Elder: A man's relationship with his father - every boy, every man lucky enough to have a father in his life has to figure that out. My own father? I thought I knew him - even though he seldom talked about himself. And what I knew I hated - really, really hated. Cold, ill-tempered, thin-skinned, my father always seemed on the brink of erupting. Scared to death of him, I kept telling myself to find the courage to "stand up to him". When I was 15, I did. After that, said Elder, we did not speak to each other for 10 years.
And then we did - for eight hours. The result can't be described. It has to be experienced.
As reflected in the book's subtitle - Two Lives...Eight Hours - one extraordinary, all-day conversation between Elder and his long-estranged father utterly transformed their relationship. It is no exaggeration to say the book will likewise transform listeners.
Indeed, calling it stunning, Burt Boyar, co-author of the best-selling autobiography on Sammy Davis, Jr., says of Dear Father, Dear Son: "Above all it is a wonderful read. I am tempted to call it a page-turner but in my case I hated to turn every page because that meant I was getting closer to the end and I did not want it to end.... The book is filled with emotion. It is, of course, a handbook for life. I guess it is that above all things. Any kid who reads it and follows the advice of how to live his life just has to come out well."
Dear Father, Dear Son is the story of one man discovering a son he never really knew. And of the son finding a man, a friend, a father who had really been there all along.
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I laughed, cried & loved this book!!
I just love this book. Many relatable moments & perspectives I never considered. I laughed, cried and pictured almost every moment. I hope everyone out there realizes the sacrifices our parents make for us & gets a chance to show more appreciation while they’re still with us. I wish I would have told my dad more often how much I loved and appreciated him. Thank you for this book, I want to get a copy for everyone I love. ♥️
This book is filled with deep powerful moments
This book is full of wisdom about many eras, parenting, our nation, and how your perspective is yours and yours alone. This beautiful story about the life of Larry Elder and his father (and mother) reminded me that the world is not a simple two dimensional space. It’s dynamic, and the choices we make resonate through space and time. It also reminded me to be brave enough to confront situations rather than leave them to fester. Larry’s bravery to confront a man he feared and did not respect (his father), led him to what I can only describe as a beautiful second life with the same father. Their worlds, while shared in so many ways, were completely different experiences. The eight hour conversation between these two men changed the course of their lives, and frankly, mine too. Thank you, Larry.