Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side

These days, women rarely come across men who can meet them fully in intimacy, suggests maverick teacher and author David Deida. Why? Because women have culturally evolved beyond men. What does sexiness mean in today's changing world? How do men and women re-learn to trust each other in spiritual depth and emotional intimacy? Beyond old sexual roles, is there any hope for enduring and ecstatic intimacy?

Many women feel that men have become all but obsolete as dependable breadwinners, trustworthy guides, and committed husbands. In this time of focused women and drifting men, how do you - and why would you - find, choose, and deepen with a lover? When we transcend all past roles, what do people find sexually and emotionally attractive? What do men and women of today really want in their hearts and beds?

With irreverent humor and shocking insight, David Deida speaks to cutting-edge women and men who are ready for a new way to dance in love together. Recorded live during actual workshops, these talks are Deida's spontaneous responses to real-life questions posed by an international gathering of successful professionals, accomplished artists, and spiritual practitioners, all of whom are exploring intimacy's next step. Each program is a unique collection of Deida's teachings on how to live as love in today's evolving world, beyond all gender roles, yet fully sexually alive.

Highlights:

Giving dark energy to magnify passion
Understanding why the masculine seeks freedom and the feminine seeks love
Differentiating true dark love from heartlessness
Orienting away from rape and war toward ravishment and martial arts
Attracting partners as evolved as you
Creating full-spectrum sexual polarity
Expressing darkness to unkink love's knots
Liberating the lower body
Artfully offering subtle and gross dark sexual energy
Why men crave a partner with specific energetic flavors
Understanding how superior women become masculinized and the resultant affairs of their partners
What qualities do men find worth marrying?
Marrying to increase, not decrease, freedom
Evolving men's motivation to get married
Cultivating sexual irresistibility for the sake of liberation
Choosing a partner to grow with through the stages of marriage
Increasing capacity for sexual inspiration, saturation, and obliteration
Seeking feminine energy through porn and nature if not women
Differentiating first-stage manipulation from third-stage expression
Offering spontaneous feedback briefly and subtly
Achieving clarity of desire to attract a well-matched partner
Longing for long-term love, desiring short-term delight
Understanding why deep love can render a man impotent
Sexually gifting the unity of consciousness and light in love