As a man, when you decide that you want to express your romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman, how do you go about communicating those desires and interests to her?
Do you communicate your desires and interests to women in a cautious, vague, ambiguous, or "beat around the bush" manner?
Do you avoid approaching women and avoid initiating conversations with women altogether?
Do you regularly cheat on your wife or girlfriend behind her back?
Are you currently filled with so much bitterness, misogyny, and resentment toward women that you have no desire whatsoever to even interact with them?
In the audiobook version of Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking, author and professional dating coach Alan Roger Currie describes and examines what he refers to as the "Four Modes of Verbal Communication".
Currie makes the strong argument in his audiobook that the most effective interpersonal communication style that a man can exhibit with a woman is MODE ONE behavior, which represents when a man expresses his romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman in a manner that is bold, highly self-assured, up front, specific, and straightforwardly honest.
Currie harshly criticizes the idea of men maintaining disingenuous platonic friendships with women (what Currie refers to as "FunClubbin"), and he also points out that many men and women tend to exhibit behavior that is very duplicitous, dishonest, disingenuous, misleading, and manipulative when interacting with members of the opposite sex in today's dating scene.
Currie invites his male listeners to take notes while listening to each and every chapter (preprinted notes are available at modeone.net/journal/).
Warning: Some chapters in the audiobook include explicit language.
Every man should become a mode 1 communicator
Power message all men should hear. You will learn why you have been frustrated with women and not gotten enough sex and you will realize it is because you aren’t honest. Great for single or married men.
I love this book.
It give me the confidence i needed to my real me. But for some reason is not in my cloud library anymore i want this audio book back
Alan’s book is very well thought out and deserves all the praise available. He has a gift for breaking down a very complex issue in to clear, concise and relatable content. I’ll join the many men in their 40s who ask, “Where was this when I was 16?”.