Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself (Unabridged) Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself (Unabridged)

Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself (Unabridged‪)‬

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Publisher Description

Are you too nice?

If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness.

In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.

You'll discover how to:

Easily say "no" when you want to and need to
Confidently and effectively ask for what you want
Speak up more freely in all your relationships
Eliminate feelings of guilt, anxiety, and worry about what others will think

GENRE
Nonfiction
NARRATOR
Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD
LANGUAGE
EN
English
LENGTH
18:03
hr min
RELEASED
2017
November 17
PUBLISHER
The Center for Social Confidence
PRESENTED BY
Audible.com
SIZE
891.3
MB

Customer Reviews

found myself finally ,

Best book ever

This book described my whole life. In fact, it describes all my siblings, I wondered if my parents had royalties. That was a bad joke, and honestly I have been living up to twisted expectations, rules set incorrectly. I got the audio version and plan to get the hardcover book to do the exercises and highlight the stronger areas that stand out for me and to share with my loved ones. Aziz communicates clearly, and is on point with nice behaviors viewed as passive and guides you to become assertive, bold, get your needs met and still be kind and loving.

weswillweldit ,

Life changing. Thank you aziz.

Read it. Apply. Don’t try and pick and choose… just dive in and commit. I promise you it will change you if you really study it and take it in. Thank you aziz

Pierce is awesome ,

A very long and stupid pep talk

Im on chapter 8 and I can’t finish this. It’s awful. There is no practical advice, just a lot of “you can do it” and “believe in yourself” kind of nonsense. Hated it.

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