J.R. Moehringer grew up captivated by a voice. It was the voice of his father, a New York City disc jockey who vanished before J.R. spoke his first word. Sitting on the stoop, pressing an ear to the radio, J.R. would strain to hear in that plumy baritone the secrets of masculinity and identity. Though J.R.'s mother was his world, his rock, he craved something more, something faintly and hauntingly audible only in The Voice.
At eight years old, suddenly unable to find The Voice on the radio, J.R. turned in desperation to the bar on the corner, where he found a rousing chorus of new voices. Cops, bookies, soldiers, and stumblebums, all sorts of men gathered in the bar to tell their stories and forget their cares. The alphas along the bar, including J.R.'s uncle Charlie, a Humphrey Bogart look-alike; Colt, a Yogi Bear sound-alike and Joey D, a soft-hearted brawler, took J.R. to the beach, to ballgames, and ultimately into their circle. They taught J.R., tended him, and provided a kind of fatherhood-by-committee.
Torn between the stirring example of his mother and the lurid romance of the bar, J.R. tried to forge a self somewhere in the center. But when it was time for J.R. to leave home, the bar became an increasingly seductive sanctuary, a place to return and regroup during his picaresque journeys. Time and again, the bar offered shelter from failure, rejection, heartbreak, and eventually from reality.
In the grand tradition of landmark memoirs, The Tender Bar is suspenseful, wrenching, and achingly funny. A classic American story of self-invention and escape, of the fierce love between a single mother and an only son, it's also a moving portrait of one boy's struggle to become a man, and an unforgettable depiction of how men remain, at heart, lost boys.
The Tender Bar: A Memoir
I loved this audiobook. It was my first purchase from itunes and it won't be my last. Moehringer caught me when I was trying to deal with fear, something he deals with in his book. I felt like I was watching his life as easily as I was living mine. I won't say I cried, but I did. I felt for him and loved him. I will be listening to this audiobook for quite some time.
The Tender Bar
A toast to the smooth blend of wit and wisdom in this top shelf tale. JR mixes each character with equal parts humor and sorrow. The story flows like Guiness from the tap; rich, dark, and satisfying to the bottom of the glass. A Magnificent first offering from JR Moehringer.
The son certainly inherits the Voice, and the telling of this tale will leave you not shaken, but stirred. Cheers!