A victim narcissist is not as innocent as he or she wants everyone to believe. In fact, they can be extremely dangerous. All narcissists know how to pull the victim card when they need to, but a victim narcissist lives a life of misery. Never taking responsibility, the narcissist shifts blame and skirts responsibility. He's the reckless driver who crashes his car on purpose as a "cry for attention," but doesn't care he injured others. She is the grandmother with a psychopathic streak who orchestrates a fight between her husband and son. Her son goes to jail and her husband attempts suicide as all of her friends comfort her.