Why We Ask: A Practical Guide to Purpose and Connection (Unabridged‪)‬

What if the right questions could change everything—your relationships, your faith, even your sense of purpose?

In an age of constant noise, many of us feel painfully alone. We're surrounded by voices, but not authenticity. We speak, but are rarely known. We scroll, stream, and stay busy—but deep down, we know we're lacking something. We’re craving real connection. We weren’t made to live isolated lives. We were made for love.

Why We Ask offers a practical, faith-rooted guide to building meaningful relationships—one question at a time. Blending Christian wisdom, personal stories, and compelling research, Dirk Bellamy reveals how asking better questions can unlock deeper friendships, strengthen families, heal divisions, and draw us closer to God.

You’ll learn how to:

Move beyond small talk to conversations that matter
Ease loneliness and build authentic community
Deepen connection with your spouse, children, and friends
Bridge divisions with compassion and curiosity
Sense God’s presence and purpose


Whether you're around the dinner table, spending time with friends, or praying alone in the dark, the right questions can open hearts—and change lives.

If you long for deeper connection, lasting love, and spiritual growth, Why We Ask will show you the way.