Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
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Publisher Description
A New York Times bestseller—with more than one million copies sold!
If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. You may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to compensate for your parent’s behavior. These wounds can be healed, and you can move forward in your life.
In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect, and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents’ emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you’ll learn how to create positive, new relationships so you can build a better life.
Discover the four types of difficult parents:
• The emotional parent instills feelings of instability and anxiety
• The driven parent stays busy trying to perfect everything and everyone
• The passive parent avoids dealing with anything upsetting
• The rejecting parent is withdrawn, dismissive, and derogatory
Customer Reviews
A Lifesaver
I feel like I’ve just woken up after an entire lifetime of feeling alone. It is so refreshing to have an author write a step by step guide on how to take back your life and not just reference vague ideas. Thank you!
Life-Changing
I didn’t realize how much I was carrying every day until I read this book. I appreciate how it was tactful to not make me blame my parents but just learned from my experiences and help me be a better man.
If I could buy this for everyone I would.
Saved my life. Should be mandatory to read and comprehend. Would solve so many problems. Thank you so much. You changed my life. This book helped me get sober. This book made my 29 year old wife realize she’s been carrying the weight of not liking her mom despite her mom being dead. “You can’t speak ill….” You know how it goes. I went NC with my parents for the last time. This book is an invaluable tool for living in an externalist world. Thank you lady G. It’s like breathing for the first time. Wow. I will apply the themes in this every day, in every interaction.