Asylum
A Memoir & Manifesto
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Publisher Description
A “moving…dramatic” (David Ebershoff, New York Times bestselling author of The Danish Girl), and urgent call to action for immigration justice by a Nigerian asylee and global gay rights and immigration activist Edafe Okporo.
On the eve of Edafe Okporo’s twenty-sixth birthday, he was awoken by a violent mob outside his window in Abuja, Nigeria. The mob threatened his life after discovering the secret Edafe had been hiding for years—that he is a gay man. Left with no other choice, he purchased a one-way plane ticket to New York City and fled for his life. Though America had always been painted to him as a land of freedom and opportunity, it was anything but when he arrived just days before the tumultuous 2016 Presidential Election.
Edafe would go on to spend the next six months at an immigration detention center in Elizabeth, New Jersey. After navigating the confusing, often draconian, US immigration and legal system, he was finally granted asylum. But he would soon realize that America is exceptionally good at keeping people locked up but is seriously lacking in integrating freed refugees into society.
Asylum is Edafe’s “powerful, eye-opening” (Dr. Eric Cervini, New York Times bestselling author of The Deviant’s War) memoir and manifesto, which documents his experiences growing up gay in Nigeria, fleeing to America, navigating the immigration system, and making a life for himself as a Black, gay immigrant. Alongside his personal story is a blaring call to action—not only for immigration reform but for a just immigration system for refugees everywhere. This book imagines a future where immigrants and asylees are treated with fairness, transparency, and compassion. It aims to help us understand that home is not just where you feel safe and welcome but also how you can make it feel safe and welcome for others.
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Activist Okporo debuts with a deeply affecting account of the trials he endured as a Black gay man seeking asylum in the United States. Alienated as a child in the 1990s by the theater of bravado and masculinity in his southern Nigerian hometown, Okporo joined the priesthood at age 18, hoping to find delivery "from any evil spirit that had possessed me with my attraction for other men." Instead, he spent the next two years "hooking up with straight-passing men who carried big Bibles." After leaving the church in his 20s to live openly as a queer man in Abuja, he quickly found work as an AIDS activist, but, eventually, his public efforts to destigmatize homosexuality made it dangerous for him to remain in Nigeria, even leading to an assault by a mob. From here, his story takes a swift turn as he recounts his path to find refuge in the United States. In clear-eyed prose, Okporo illustrates how, after being detained in New Jersey for six months without legal counsel, he navigated a turbulent road pocked with hypocrisy and cruelty until finally being granted asylum. Shirking a tidy story of hope, Okporo offers instead a resonant critique of what it means to be "free" in America, a place, where, he writes, "to succeed... to adopt whiteness in all its form." Readers will be galvanized by this resounding call for equality.