Cheating is not cheating is a guide to helping women understand the nature of a man as well as helping men understand the nature of themselves. With this book, it is in my intention to provide a solution to common relationship problems through teaching healing, and providing readers with an understanding of themself and their spouse. STOP! Before you even begin to read this book, there are a few things I want to establish right here! This is not a book on equality or human rights. This is not a book on who's right or who's wrong. This is not a book on men vs. women. This is not a book on your personal experiences. This is not a book on how we wish things could be. This is a book on how things are. This is a book based on authentic human behavioral studies, tendencies, and observations in and out of relationships, as well as transitioning between relationships. If you're looking for a book with a narrative that's depicting a perfect world, with perfect people and perfect relationships, then put this book down and pick up a book in the fairytale section. This book is written solely for the men and women in the world who are seeking understanding about one another and open to receive it. This book is written in efforts of providing the truth to establishing and maintaining happiness in or out of a relationship, through understanding and being understood. Most importantly! This book is written to save a nation of people from suffering behind the views and opinions of a society that has convinced people to hate their reality.