Dads and Divorce

When the marriage ends, the job of fathering does not. This book is a steady, practical guide for the man who refuses to become a weekend visitor in his own children's lives. It walks you through the first shock of separation, the legal decisions that will shape your parenting time, and the everyday mechanics of two homes, school runs, bedtimes, and birthday plans. You will find clear language for difficult conversations with your children, your former partner, and yourself. There are checklists for what to bring to a solicitor, what to track in the shared calendar, and how to raise concerns about your children's wellbeing without reigniting a war. It addresses the loneliness and guilt fathers rarely admit to, and points directly to support that helps. Whether you are living apart, sharing custody, or fighting for a workable arrangement, this book keeps your eye on what still matters: showing up, staying steady, and remaining a full parent. Part of The New Father Library.

About the author

Winifred Ashcombe Vellacott writes for The New Father Library.