Dating Doesn’t Have to Suck

In a society where your loss is made to feel like your failure... you have every right to want to find love again and to do so.

This practical field guide was written for men who've been widowed or blindsided by divorce. If you've been out there long enough to be frustrated or disenchanted because it feels like dating is rigged... this book is for you too.

Being ready to date comes down to one question:

Are you looking for someone to fill a void or someone to share a life with?

Some say dating and finding someone is about presentation, power, property, and prestige, that it's about the hunt, the game, the right lines and techniques. 

What a load of horseshit!

The apps are new. The language has changed. Men coming back to dating after years away fixate on all of it. None of it is the actual problem. Everything you've been through has given you something most younger men can't fake: depth, perspective, and a genuine understanding of what truly matters in life. Success in dating comes down to knowing yourself, what you're genuinely looking for, and showing up as yourself instead of trying to be what you think she wants.

How well do you know:

Who you are now and how the curiosity and passions of your youth were forged by your experiences? 

What lifelong patterns defined your relationships and which patterns belong in a life you now actively choose?

What you actually want from a relationship now, having loved as you have, and what it means to choose it deliberately... maybe for the first time?

What you need to look for in an ideal partner now: a real answer, not a replacement or repetition of the past?

Every human being wants to be heard, respected, and valued. This book gives you the clarity to both offer all three and recognize when someone is genuinely offering them back. Show up as the playful, authentic version of yourself you've been told all your life to keep under wraps... until now.