Disability Intimacy
Essays on Love, Care, and Desire
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5.0 • 2 Ratings
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Publisher Description
The much-anticipated follow up to the groundbreaking anthology Disability Visibility: another revolutionary collection of first-person writing on the joys and challenges of the modern disability experience, and intimacy in all its myriad forms.
What is intimacy? More than sex, more than romantic love, the pieces in this stunning and illuminating new anthology offer broader and more inclusive definitions of what it can mean to be intimate with another person. Explorations of caregiving, community, access, and friendship offer us alternative ways of thinking about the connections we form with others—a vital reimagining in an era when forced physical distance is at times a necessary norm.
But don't worry: there's still sex to consider—and the numerous ways sexual liberation intersects with disability justice. Plunge between these pages and you'll also find disabled sexual discovery, disabled love stories, and disabled joy. These twenty-five stunning original pieces—plus other modern classics on the subject, all carefully curated by acclaimed activist Alice Wong—include essays, photo essays, poetry, drama, and erotica: a full spectrum of the dreams, fantasies, and deeply personal realities of a wide range of beautiful bodies and minds. Disability Intimacy will free your thinking, invigorate your spirit, and delight your desires.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
Disability activist Alice Wong cuts through worn-out misconceptions and baseless taboos as curator of this game-changing collection of works on intimacy in the world of disability. The 40 writers who weigh in here cover a vast spectrum of ways of thinking about closeness. That includes not just eye-opening pieces on dating, marriage, friendship, and family, but nuanced thoughts on topics like sex work, caregiving, parenting, and kink. The breadth of content is one of the things that makes this collection so special, highlighting the massive diversity of desires and experiences among people with disabilities. We were especially taken by s.e. smith describing the unique closeness of physical therapy and by Rabbi Elliot Kukla connecting with his son through mutual naps. Disability Intimacy is a thoughtful and often deeply moving experience.