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Publisher Description

Ladies, I'm not here to tell you how many secret ways you can bend over backwards to get some man to come and validate you. You've heard enough of that.
Men, I'm not here to tell you how to attract more women in an effort to chase the fulfillment your heart yearns for but you never learned how to keep. You've tried that already. It did not, and still has not worked.

I'm here to tell you how to stop getting mindscrewed, toyed with, and taken for granted. It's killing your hope in love, and likely even eating away at your sense of self. You don't have to admit it to me, and you can hide it from your circle, but deep down, you know. Why am I so sure? Because I've been there before.
I've been on both the receiving and giving end of heartbreak. I've been the bullshitter and the bullshitted. I, like many of you, tried everything to put myself in position where I could never get hurt, but no matter what, I failed because I was already hurting due to my lack of understanding of self-love.
In this book, I take you through not only my personal process in that journey but also the lessons I learned to help me lead millions in that same journey for themselves today. I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm just telling you that if you continue going in circles like you've been doing then it's by choice because I've now given you the map. The rest is on you to make the necessary steps. Just don't forget your crown

September 25
Derrick Jaxn
Smashwords, Inc.

Customer Reviews

labachmeier ,


This book is so inspiring and answers so many questions about dating, warning signs I’ve personally dismissed and answered questions that I’ve always wanted to ask.... why did he...? Mr. Jackson’s words are honest, intellectual and moving. I was so motivated I even surpassed the recommendation of “dating myself” once a week and took myself on a 3 week vacation to see the parts of America I’ve always wanted to see. It was the best time I’ve had in years. This book brings me hope and lets me know that I don’t have to lower my standards like a lot of people suggest.

Hill in NC ,


I just came out of a horrible relationship with a narcissist. The course of that relationship destroyed who I was at my core. I have been in therapy and working to restore the love I lost for myself while trying to love someone else. This book was right on time for me. I have slowly inched my way into the dating world and it’s hard. I needed the book. It has helped me set healthy boundaries and reassured me of my values so that I never end up in that type of situation again. I highly recommend this book. It’s easy to read and I got through it super fast! Best part is finding out the author is from eastern NC just like myself!

Bammer3xs ,


I’m not going to lie, things definitely were hitting too close to home while reading this book....to the point of wanting to put the book down. But I didn’t and I’m extremely happy I didn’t. I’ve spent many years living in the past, wondering why the previous situations didn’t work. I learned I don’t love myself like I should and before I can expect ANY situation to work out I must first allow myself time to heal, time for self-care and self-love. Thank you, I really needed this!

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