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Publisher Description

Ladies, I'm not here to tell you how many secret ways you can bend over backwards to get some man to come and validate you. You've heard enough of that.
Men, I'm not here to tell you how to attract more women in an effort to chase the fulfillment your heart yearns for but you never learned how to keep. You've tried that already. It did not, and still has not worked.

I'm here to tell you how to stop getting mindscrewed, toyed with, and taken for granted. It's killing your hope in love, and likely even eating away at your sense of self. You don't have to admit it to me, and you can hide it from your circle, but deep down, you know. Why am I so sure? Because I've been there before.
I've been on both the receiving and giving end of heartbreak. I've been the bullshitter and the bullshitted. I, like many of you, tried everything to put myself in position where I could never get hurt, but no matter what, I failed because I was already hurting due to my lack of understanding of self-love.
In this book, I take you through not only my personal process in that journey but also the lessons I learned to help me lead millions in that same journey for themselves today. I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm just telling you that if you continue going in circles like you've been doing then it's by choice because I've now given you the map. The rest is on you to make the necessary steps. Just don't forget your crown

September 25
Derrick Jaxn
Smashwords, Inc.

Customer Reviews

shhnail ,


This book was a great reminder for me of a few thing that I already knew. More then anything it has helped me to think outside of the box while also reinforcing self love and so much more. I was engaged the entire time and I’m excited about this next chapter “The sixth love language” and this is coming from someone who doesn’t really enjoy reading. Absolutely refreshing thank you!

Daya1211 ,

Exactly What I Needed!

Whenever I came to the internet for relationship advice, Derrick Jaxn was the first person I consistently looked to for answers. I trusted his judgement and really understood what he was saying in every situation on Youtube. I stumbled upon this book after going through a tough break-up recently. We are both 21 year old college students and this book really helped me understand my ex-boyfriend’s behaviors much more. I am overcome with so many realizations and an abundance of peace because of how in-depth Derrick went into when explaining where he went wrong and his journey to becoming a better version of himself. Honestly, I recommend this book to women, because I feel like it would really help them understand the men more and also to men because I feel like many of them are going through the same situations and this would be a great guide if they seek self-improvement as well. Overall, I was glued to this book, I read it the same day I purchased it and am so grateful that I did.

labachmeier ,


This book is so inspiring and answers so many questions about dating, warning signs I’ve personally dismissed and answered questions that I’ve always wanted to ask.... why did he...? Mr. Jackson’s words are honest, intellectual and moving. I was so motivated I even surpassed the recommendation of “dating myself” once a week and took myself on a 3 week vacation to see the parts of America I’ve always wanted to see. It was the best time I’ve had in years. This book brings me hope and lets me know that I don’t have to lower my standards like a lot of people suggest.

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