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Wall Street Journal, "Favorite Books of the Year 2013"
Cosmopolitan, "Best Books of the Year for Women"
Library Journal, "Best Books of 2013"
Salon, "Best Books of 2013"

"Haunting... more than a beautifully written memoir. [A] powerful and raw love letter."—The Washington Post

A blazingly passionate memoir of identity and love: when a charismatic and troubled young woman dies tragically, her identical twin must struggle to survive

Christa Parravani and her identical twin, Cara, were linked by a bond that went beyond siblinghood, beyond sisterhood, beyond friendship. Raised up from poverty by a determined single mother, the gifted and beautiful twins were able to create a private haven of splendor and merriment between themselves and then earn their way to a prestigious college and to careers as artists (a photographer and a writer, respectively) and to young marriages. But, haunted by childhood experiences with father figures and further damaged by being raped as a young adult, Cara veered off the path to robust work and life and in to depression, drugs and a shocking early death.

A few years after Cara was gone, Christa read that when an identical twin dies, regardless of the cause, 50 percent of the time the surviving twin dies within two years; and this shocking statistic rang true to her. "Flip a coin," she thought," those were my chances of survival." First, Christa fought to stop her sister's downward spiral; suddenly, she was struggling to keep herself alive.
Beautifully written, mesmerizingly rich and true, Christa Parravani's account of being left, one half of a whole, and of her desperate, ultimately triumphant struggle for survival is informative, heart-wrenching and unforgettably beautiful.

Biographies & Memoirs
March 5
Henry Holt and Co.

Customer Reviews

Brat154 ,

Easy read

Easy read keeps you interested recommend it


A hard read but worth it

I’ve been told more than once that my own book (A Series of Events), is a hard read. I didn’t understand what that meant until I read Her. This book is intensely written, giving the reader very little relief from one tragic moment to the next. With that being said, I’m simply a reader and not someone such as Christa that had to endure the types of physical and mental anguish that she so painstakingly describes in her story. I have the utmost respect for Christa and applaud her courage for sharing her journey. I hope that she finds peace and is able to move forward happily through her life.

Mr. Steven King ,


This book is absolutely beautiful.
I loved every word. Just what I needed.