How to Be Old
Lessons in Living Boldly from the Accidental Icon
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4.2 • 5 Ratings
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Publisher Description
One of Elle's Most Anticipated Nonfiction Books of 2024
A personal memoir in which Lyn Slater, known on Instagram as “Accidental Icon,” brings her characteristic style, optimism, forward-thinking, and rules-are-meant-to-be-broken attitude to the question of how to live boldly at any age.
When Lyn Slater started her fashion blog, Accidental Icon, at age sixty-one, she discovered that followers were flocking to her account for more than just her A-list style. As Lyn flaunted gray hair, wrinkles, and a megadose of self-acceptance, they found in her an alternative model of older life: someone who defied the stereotypes, refused to become invisible, and showed that all women have the opportunity to be relevant and take major risks at any stage of their life. Youth is not the only time we can be experimental.
How to Be Old tells the ten-year story of Lyn’s sixties, the sometimes-glamorous, sometimes-turbulent decade of Accidental Icon. This memoir is about the hopeful and future-oriented process of reinvention. It shows readers that while you can’t control everything, what you can control is the way you think about your age and the creative ways you respond to the changes in your mind and body as they happen. Rather than trying to meet standards of youth and beauty as a measure of successful aging, Lyn promotes a more inclusive and empowering standard to judge our older selves by.
In this paradigm-shifting memoir, Lyn exemplifies that even with its unique challenges, being old is just like any new beginning in your life and can be the best and most invigorating of all of life’s phases, full of rebellion and reinvention, connection and creativity.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Former social worker Slater celebrates her late-in-life successes and shares tips on aging gracefully in her punchy debut. Encouraged by her mother to live as a "belligerent woman," Slater entered middle age with a conviction that "how old I am is hands down the most boring fact about me." In her 50s, she supplemented a hip replacement with a PhD in social work and her first trip to Europe. At 61, she launched a fashion blog, Accidental Icon, which catered to older women who lived "interesting but ordinary" urban lives, and found a sturdy following for her photos and passionate musings on style and design. Now pushing 70, Slater notes that her @IconAccidental Instagram account has nearly 770,000. Much of the books is structured as a manual to help readers achieve the kind of confidence Slater radiates online ("I'm a badass in part because I'm an older woman who is decidedly not trying to look young"), but she allows for flashes of vulnerability, admitting, for instance, the shortsightedness of her onetime mantra that aging "isn't real" and disclosing her occasional insecurities about getting older. The result is a radiant self-portrait that will charm readers of any age.
