Divorcing a narcissist? You are probably left feeling baffled and shaken by the communication that you receive from the narcissist.
This is an amazing tool for learning when to respond, what the hidden messages are, and simply making sense of the madness that we live in. It is a tool that gave me some sanity as I was in a place of feeling the need to continually defend myself in his rants against me. Even though I knew the writings were very deliberate lies and meant simply to cast a false light for the Judge and hurt me insidiously, I felt it may be believed if I didn't react. However, reading this book gave me some power back and allowed me to view things in a different light.
I am convinced there is a Narc-ish dictionary or manually hidden deep in a dark, musty hole somewhere in a faraway land with step-by-step instructions on how to inflict fear, confusion, and despair. From this land, narcissists hail. Their secret language can only be decoded by those who aren’t fooled by the narcissist’s stealth ability to inflict confusion and chaos with it.
Once you understand how to use the Narc Decoder, your life will change for the better. You will become empowered and will regain your voice. Over time, you will begin to find humor in the communication style that once left you on your knees begging for mercy.