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Publisher Description

Men are right. The “relationship talk” does not help. Dr. Patricia Love’s and
Dr. Steven Stosny’s How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness:

Love is not about better communication.
It's about connection.

You'll never get a closer relationship
with your man by talking to him like you
talk to one of your girlfriends.

Male emotions are like women's sexuality:
you can't be too direct too quickly.

There are four ways to connect with a man:touch, activity, sex, routines.

Men want closer marriages just as much as women do,but not if they has to act like a woman.

Talking makes women move closer;
it makes men move away.

The secret of the silent male is this:
his wife supplies the meaning in his life.

The stunning truth about love is that talking doesn’t help.

Have you ever had this conversation with your spouse?

Wife: “Honey, we need to talk about us.”
Husband: “Do we have to?”

Drs. Patricia Love and Steven Stosny have studied this all-too-familiar dynamic between men and women and have reached a truly shocking conclusion. Even with the best of intentions, talking about your relationship doesn’t bring you together, and it will eventually drive you apart.

The reason for this is that underneath most couples’ fights, there is a biological difference at work. A woman’s vulnerability to fear and anxiety makes her draw closer, while a man’s subtle sensitivity to shame makes him pull away in response. This is why so many married couples fall into the archetypal roles of nagging wife/stonewalling husband, and why improving a marriage can’t happen through words.

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It teaches couples how to get closer in ways that don’t require “trying to turn a man into a woman.” Rich in stories of couples who have turned their marriages around, and full of practical advice about the behaviors that make and break marriages, this essential guide will help couples find love beyond words.

GENRE
Nonfiction
RELEASED
2008
April 29
LANGUAGE
EN
English
LENGTH
240
Pages
PUBLISHER
Potter/Ten Speed/Harmony/Rodale
SELLER
Penguin Random House LLC
SIZE
8.9
MB

Customer Reviews

Lomattem ,

Book

Very informative

Keithnickname ,

Good read

My wife and I read this together, apart. I am deployed. Excellent resource! I will read it again.

fiddlereader ,

Amazing

I kept looking at self help books for confirmation of all the things my husband was doing wrong in our marriage, but reading this book helped me see how much my own insecurities and defensiveness were contributing to our problems. It helped me make changes in my attitude toward him, which in turn prompted him to be more loving.

The title really says it all. If you want to improve the dynamic in your marriage without dictating your partner’s behavior and possibly hurting them with those requests (been there many times!), this is a wonderful read.