How to Say Babylon
A Memoir
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Publisher Description
National Book Critics Circle Award Winner
A New York Times Notable Book
A Read with Jenna Today Show Book Club Pick!
A Best Book of 2023 by the New York Times, Time, The Washington Post, Vulture, Shelf Awareness, Goodreads, Esquire, The Atlantic, NPR, and Barack Obama
With echoes of Educated and Born a Crime, How to Say Babylon is the stunning story of the author’s struggle to break free of her rigid Rastafarian upbringing, ruled by her father’s strict patriarchal views and repressive control of her childhood, to find her own voice as a woman and poet.
Throughout her childhood, Safiya Sinclair’s father, a volatile reggae musician and militant adherent to a strict sect of Rastafari, became obsessed with her purity, in particular, with the threat of what Rastas call Babylon, the immoral and corrupting influences of the Western world outside their home. He worried that womanhood would make Safiya and her sisters morally weak and impure, and believed a woman’s highest virtue was her obedience.
In an effort to keep Babylon outside the gate, he forbade almost everything. In place of pants, the women in her family were made to wear long skirts and dresses to cover their arms and legs, head wraps to cover their hair, no make-up, no jewelry, no opinions, no friends. Safiya’s mother, while loyal to her father, nonetheless gave Safiya and her siblings the gift of books, including poetry, to which Safiya latched on for dear life. And as Safiya watched her mother struggle voicelessly for years under housework and the rigidity of her father’s beliefs, she increasingly used her education as a sharp tool with which to find her voice and break free. Inevitably, with her rebellion comes clashes with her father, whose rage and paranoia explodes in increasing violence. As Safiya’s voice grows, lyrically and poetically, a collision course is set between them.
How to Say Babylon is Sinclair’s reckoning with the culture that initially nourished but ultimately sought to silence her; it is her reckoning with patriarchy and tradition, and the legacy of colonialism in Jamaica. Rich in lyricism and language only a poet could evoke, How to Say Babylon is both a universal story of a woman finding her own power and a unique glimpse into a rarefied world we may know how to name, Rastafari, but one we know little about.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
We were wowed by this riveting memoir about a young woman’s journey to escape her oppressive Rastafarian home. Growing up under the austere and unyielding hand of a physically and emotionally abusive father, poet Safiya Sinclair broke away from her family to reclaim her own sense of value. In lyrical prose, Sinclair shares both her personal history and that of her fellow Jamaicans, mapping their path from enslavement and mistreatment through the messy transfer of colonial power. Thanks to her talent for rich descriptions and anecdotes, Sinclair truly makes you feel what it meant for her to be beaten down and isolated by a father fixated on restricting what he saw as the immoral influence of Western culture. But her story is full of precious glimmers of hope, like the book of poetry her mother gifted her at age 10. How to Say Babylon is a rewarding story of one woman’s cathartic journey to freedom.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Poet Sinclair (Cannibal) recounts her harrowing upbringing in Jamaica in this bruising memoir. Forbidden by her militant Rastafarian father from talking to friends or wearing pants or jewelry, Sinclair and her sisters were subject to his unpredictable whims and rage. After her mother gifted 10-year-old Sinclair a book of poems, she turned to writing poetry, drawn to the medium's structure and emotive capabilities: "In the chaos of our rented house, the poem was order." With the help of scholarships, she attended a prestigious private school in Jamaica to study poetry, and eventually left for college in America (the proverbial "Babylon" of the title, and the main target of her father's rage), where she funneled her conflicted feelings about the move into her work: "I try to write the ache into something tangible." In dazzling prose ("There was no one and nothing ahead of me now but the unending waves, the sky outpouring its wide expanse of horizon, and all this beckoning blue"), she examines the traumas of her childhood against the backdrop of her new life as a poet in Babylon, declining to vilify her father even as she questions whether a relationship with him might be salvageable. Readers will be drawn to Sinclair's strength and swept away by her tale of triumph over oppression. This is a tour de force.
Customer Reviews
Must Read Memoir
10/10 would recommend, as you read every chapter invites you into to the writers life as she tells her story so beautifully. Very great writing which keeps you engaged page after page.
Jah love
Such a ride, what a journey! Brave writing that took me there. The spicy, sticky places that push the spirit to look into darkness and see light. I read this book while on a in a mountain cabin looking out to the sea. I identified with the idea of the sea healing us all, waking us from the dream to live the dream. Many thanks to the author Safiya Sinclair, who demonstrates what “writing from the bones” means. You inspire me to write authentically.
Highly recommended
Fantastically written memoir of an amazing woman.