Love and War

I _________do Solemnly swear (affirm), that I will support and defend...

That's how it all started. I Do... and I Did! I was all in... Fell for him, hook, line, and sinker! We had the same thought process going in. Commitment - the quality of being dedicated and devoted. Ya'll, I meant that thing, and I still do! Loyalty - the quality of being loyal, strong support/allegiance. It's in my DNA, true Blue! And Sacrifice - The act of giving up something for someone /something. My LIFE! I think that says it all.

Life will be a series of BREAKUPS, BREAKDOWNS, and BREAKTHROUGHS. Whether it's Relationships, Partnerships, or Friendships are all (vehicles) meant to carry you from one phase of life to the next. The way you navigate is contingent upon you, your faith, morals ... and the encounters that form them along your Life's Path. No matter how good and loving a relationship may be, there is always an element of conflict. Love and War is a journey of relationships set into motion before, during, and after my marriage to Sam. Before the vows (Swear In) During the marriage (Enlisted time) and After the divorce (Side Chick). I hope that you will find yourself in these pages. There is a warrior in here, there is a survivor, and there is a change agent. What are you married to? What are you holding on to because it's familiar? What's hindering you from finding You?