Mary and Mr. Eliot
A Sort of Love Story
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Publisher Description
Mary and Mr. Eliot is a twin portrait of T. S. Eliot and its author, the formidable Mary Trevelyan.
In 1938 T. S. Eliot, already “a Classic in his lifetime,” struck up a friendship with Mary Trevelyan. This passionately curious woman, an intrepid traveler who, like Eliot, was deeply involved in the affairs of the Church of England, served as the warden of the Student Movement House, mere yards from the poet and editor’s office at Faber and Faber.
Their relationship was domestic rather than artistic, characterized by churchgoing, conversation, record-playing, day trips to the English countryside with Mary at the wheel of the car Tom bought her, and Eliot cooking up sausages in his shirtsleeves. Over the years, their friendship deepened, and she came to believe it might grow into something more. Twice she proposed marriage, but Eliot always led her to understand that any such commitment would be impossible for him. Then the revelation of his long attachment to Emily Hale—and the sudden shock of his marriage to his secretary, Valerie Fletcher—caused a rupture between Trevelyan and the poet that could not be overcome.
Mary Trevelyan left a unique chronicle—including diaries, letters, and pictures—that charts their twenty-year relationship. Now Erica Wagner has given it shape and context, bringing this untold story to light for the first time. Mary and Mr. Eliot is a tale of joy, misunderstanding, and betrayal that feels utterly modern and deeply human.
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In this illuminating volume, New Statesman contributor Wagner (Chief Engineer) collects the writings of Mary Trevelyan (1897–1983)—who is best remembered in her native England for her charitable work—on her friendship with poet T.S. Eliot. Wagner contextualizes the journal entries, correspondence, and remembrances that make up Trevelyan's unpublished manuscript, The Pope of Russell Square, which covers Trevelyan and Eliot's two-decade friendship that began when she invited him to read at a Student Christian Movement conference in 1936. "This is a portrait of a romance as much as it is an account of a friendship," Wagner writes, observing that Trevelyan had hoped her friendship with Eliot would become romantic until she was blindsided by his decision to elope with his secretary in 1957, after which Trevelyan and Eliot grew estranged. While Eliot scholars will be intrigued by Trevelyan's perspective on him, accounts of Trevelyan's leadership at the Student Movement House hostel for international students in London and involvement with the YMCA during WWII prove more captivating than her quotidian exchanges with the poet. Though readers may come for Eliot, it's Trevelyan who will win them over. Photos.
