Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl
Are you the Fallback Girl?
If you've ever found yourself in a relationship that feels and seemingly looks like one, but you're struggling with commitment, or you've been in the ambiguous territory of a 'casual relationship', you've expended much time, energy, effort and emotion deciphering what the hell is going on.
You've likely tried to change them. Maybe you've wondered what you 'did' to cause this or what you can do to win their love and commitment, or even whether you're going crazy.
Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is the definitive guide to understanding the relationship between emotionally unavailable men and the women that love them. From explaining how and why they blow hot and cold, to where that future they promised went to, how you've ended up being a booty call, why you've been together for a gazillion years but aren't going anywhere, and, more importantly, how and why you're involved with them in the first place, all of the answers are here. You know you're dealing with unavailability when you ask stuff like:
What happened to that 'great guy' from the beginning?
Why won't he break up or stay away if he doesn't want to commit?
What the hell did I do to make him disappear?
Is he going to leave 'her' for me?
It's because he's shy/busy/scared of his feelings, isn't it?
Inspired by the real-life adventures in unavailability of myself and the readers of my site BaggageReclaim.com, Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is an empowering, entertaining and inspiring read that will wise you up to pitfalls such as men who aren't over their exes, Future Fakers, guys that have more baggage than a Heathrow terminal and reappearing childhood 'sweethearts'.
If you want to understand your own availability, and why commitment in a healthy relationship is eluding you, Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is your guide to being available and attracted to healthy, available partners.
What a gem!
This book is fabulous! What a gem that preciously came into my life when I needed it the most. It helped me get over an unhealthy/toxic relationship that I obviously misunderstood all this time. The author picks the right words to open your eyes and review in detail every aspect and hidden facts about this type of relationship. I can't thank her enough for writing this book and share her similar experience. Not only I've learned to understand Mr. Unavailable's tactics and behavior but I didn't expect to learn so much about myself at the same time. She covers everything you need to know to move on.
Definitely a good investment and a ticket to a new journey starring "you" as lead character of "your" own life. If you have been struggling like me with that particular type of men who treated you as an option and left you simmering numerous times on the back burner while looking for a better "spice", I recommend you read this book.
This book is a must read for women. Whether you are the fall back girl or not. I am a married woman and men are still men whether dating or married. It empowers you to look deep within yourself make hard decisions and value yourself and not live under the shadows of any man or being for that matter. The author penetrates the female mind set to help you really understand why we women act out the way we do. She let's us know we have the choice to really let go of unhealthy relationships.
I never write reviews, unless I think it really deserves my time to stop what I'm doing and let others know that: don't hesitate to buy this. It's an amazing read and honest, real, and exact to the tee.