One Day We'll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter
Essays
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4.2 • 32 Ratings
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Publisher Description
One of NPR's Best Books of the Year
A DEBUT COLLECTION OF FIERCE, FUNNY ESSAYS ABOUT GROWING UP THE DAUGHTER OF INDIAN IMMIGRANTS IN WESTERN CULTURE, ADDRESSING SEXISM, STEREOTYPES, AND THE UNIVERSAL MISERIES OF LIFE
In One Day We’ll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter, Scaachi Koul deploys her razor-sharp humor to share all the fears, outrages, and mortifying moments of her life. She learned from an early age what made her miserable, and for Scaachi anything can be cause for despair. Whether it’s a shopping trip gone awry; enduring awkward conversations with her bikini waxer; overcoming her fear of flying while vacationing halfway around the world; dealing with Internet trolls, or navigating the fears and anxieties of her parents. Alongside these personal stories are pointed observations about life as a woman of color: where every aspect of her appearance is open for critique, derision, or outright scorn; where strict gender rules bind in both Western and Indian cultures, leaving little room for a woman not solely focused on marriage and children to have a career (and a life) for herself.
With a sharp eye and biting wit, incomparable rising star and cultural observer Scaachi Koul offers a hilarious, scathing, and honest look at modern life.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
In this essay collection, Buzzfeed senior editor (and lightning rod) Scaachi Koul deftly explores heavy material: casual racism, the challenges of growing up with immigrant parents, toxic masculinity, and irrational anxiety. She writes with a delightful mix of arch humor, critical analysis, and compelling warmth, bringing a much-needed perspective to a host of timely topics. Koul is especially good when describing millennial experiences—her account of weathering the vicious attacks of online trolls, framed by her experiences coming of age with the Internet, is stunning. Equal parts brash and self-deprecatingly tender, this is an addictively readable debut from a real talent.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Simultaneously uproarious and affecting, the personal essays in Buzzfeed contributor Koul's debut explore the nuances of life as a first-generation Canadian with Indian parents, from phobias, guilt trips, and grudges to the drama of interracial dating. She provides insight into the experience of traveling to her parents' homeland, undergoing the inverse of their assimilation, and the conflicting desire to maintain and amend cultural traditions (for example, she dislikes weeklong wedding celebrations with alcohol restrictions). She discerns the "shadism" of India's caste system and its more benign cultural quirks, like every woman being given the title of "aunt" ("Mom, why do you have forty sisters? Was your mother a sea turtle?"). There is an occasional essay of sheer slapstick, as when Koul describes getting stuck inside a coveted garment in a boutique dressing room ("I flew too close to the sun with this skirt," she remarks sadly), but she also reflects poignantly on race, sexism, and body image issues. She includes a surprisingly sympathetic judgment of misogynist internet trolls and a polemic against rape culture that contains the unfortunate phrase "the first time I was roofied." The specifics of Koul's life are unique, but the overarching theme of inheritance is universal, particularly the vacillation between struggling against becoming one's parents and the begrudging acceptance that their ways might not be so bad. Koul's deft humor is a fringe benefit.
Customer Reviews
This was amazing
10/10 I don’t understand why person above would give such a low rating to an amazing book because of one word. Good job!
N word
How about not using the n word, especially with the hard -er, in your books if you’re not Black.