Petty People

In a world where resentment is glorified and unforgiveness is worn like a badge of honor, Petty People dares to ask: what's the real return on emotional revenge?

Alander Pulliam delivers a raw, personal, and philosophical exploration of the petty behaviors that plague relationships, families, and entire communities. From people who weaponize their wounds to those who thrive on drama and division, this book unpacks the psychology of pettiness — and the illusion that grudges build futures.

Drawing from his own life, Alander contrasts his path of peace with the bitterness he witnessed in others, including his own brother. The result is a powerful manifesto against emotional immaturity, a guide for those ready to break free from the cycle of scorekeeping and self-sabotage.

Whether you've been petty, been hurt by petty people, or simply want to live unbothered, Petty People is your call to rise above the noise — and choose emotional intelligence over emotional warfare.