“The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame, just as you should not look back at your past in shame. Your past was [is] part of your own transformation” (Anthony Gucciardi). This book is a true work of heart. Darla takes her complicated and often painful experiences and shares honestly and unashamedly to help Christians struggling with their own cocoons. Her ability to gently present the lessons she’s learned, and the truth of God’s true and perfect love in her brokenness offers hope and healing. Darla’s story reveals there is no one-size-fits-all, seven easy steps to do this, and no self-help book. She illuminates Christ’s truth to see his love design as we walk our unique life’s journey of transformation with him. Reflecting God’s love as the foundation of her life, Darla asks the tough questions: What is a love design? What is our love design? What is the perfect love design? What difference would it make in your life and relationships if you could live in perfect love? How do you move from your imperfect love design to Christ’s perfect one? Come and walk with Darla and work through this life-changing experience of becoming and embracing God’s design for your life. Laugh and cry as Darla shares her personal trials and triumphs in her quest for true love, for herself, and her purpose. In your journey, you may discover Christ’s exceptional love for you! Darla is a certified life coach and Christian coach, a member of the women’s ministry core team at Timberline Church in Colorado. She is a consultant for churches and their staff to understand how to live in Christ’s exceptional love design and to recognize and support victims of domestic abuse.